Do you really want to be a millionaire?
Wed, Apr 2, 2008
I haven’t thought about money much over the last several months and you know what, a lot of the depression I’d been feeling mysteriously vanished. But then it recently came back, the depression, and interestingly enough so did my frustrations about money. The frustrations came back first and then the depression kicked in. I’ve been doing a lot of thinking lately. Wondering about my own capabilities, comparing my situation to that of others, trying to understand why I don’t seem to have the same luck where making money is concerned. And you know what has occurred to me as I pay attention to the differences between the ones who are making money and the ones like me who are not? It has occurred to me that some people really do have it while others don’t, and I may well have been mistaken all this time thinking I have it. It will be any of the following: talent, drive, desire, knowledge.
Someone I know personally is about to make it very big. He’s been one of us for a while, an aspiring millionaire. He’s always impressed me as being someone who “should” make it, because he had talent, drive, desire and knowledge; but he hasn’t always had focus; and he’s tended to come down with bouts of depression. Between the lack of focus and the depression his efforts have always been thwarted; but things have changed for him and he’s now on the verge of acquiring that fame and fortune he’s wanted for years.
I should be inspired by him. I should look at him and see that it is possible to achieve your goals no matter how long you’ve struggled and how many times you’ve come up short; but I am not feeling inspired. I am happy for him, but I’ve been thinking that I don’t necessarily have the talent, the drive, the desire or the knowledge and without these things you can’t reach that height of success.
So I’m asking myself, “do you really want to be a millionaire”? And I’m not sure what’s the answer. I believe that many people talk about wanting to get rich, but very few are truly driven by a desire to be rich. By that I mean, you can want to get rich, but unless you hope to get rich by winning millions, your desire to be rich needs to be as serious as a desire to be a doctor or a lawyer for example; because just as in wanting to become a doctor or a lawyer you necessarily need a willingness and intention to do what it takes, to go through the process that you have to go through before you can receive a license declaring you a doctor or a lawyer, a desire to be rich needs to be accompanied by a willingness to do what it takes, to go through whatever process you must go through in order to come out a rich man or woman.
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